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Posted on 12/02/2009


This is really an open question rather than a blog, but to be honest, after a quick perusal the forums appear to suck.¿ And dribble too.¿ Big time.
So, munches, fetish nights, these are some fun sounding things I've known about for a while now, and I'm thinking of finding out about some and possibly heading along; I know of a couple in existence here in Glasgow.¿ My only issue is, I don't know anyone in the scene.¿ This makes it a little awkward, because I have no idea what to expect, how clique these things might be, how welcoming to randoms that turn up going 'Hey, those are some sexy leather chaps my friend!'.. and so on.
So I wondered, does anyone here have any experience of these in Scotland or the UK in general, any tips or advice?¿ Or if anyone goes along to any and wouldn't mind some extra company it'd be good to hear from all you kinky lads and lassies!
And as for tips, the obligatory "Don't wave your dick about, or hit people on the head with it while singing Mr Gabriel's Sledgehammer", or "Bring your own midget, they're in short supply! boom boom!", while less useful are always good for a laugh. :)¿ P.s. I was only joking about the chaps, I have enough common sense to complement the ass in those circumstances ;)
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Posted on 12/25/2009

Wow, I write a blog with lots of hits, and then sadly have to dissapear for a few weeks - an unkind life sadly, but now to try and reply to you all... *deep breath*
 
 
 
@Luciatristania - Heya, whips nails and teeth are always welcome ;)  I had a look at Murielle Scherre's stuff and the 'La fille d'O', and I think yummy best sums up what I found, very sexy stuff there.  I've been looking at a few online shops for clothes, and there are a few that are quite expensive, but, it is worth it as the clothes are tailored (I think that makes it worth it, I know sweet fa about it really), so I think in the new year I may be buying some cool things, with pictures going up, no worries :)
 
 
 
@Joey - Wasn't your Grandfather also the Black Isle champion caber tosser for many years, model for porridge oats packets and fastest in the 'Plough a field' race for 8 consecutive titles at the Highland show? ;)
 
 
 
@Noodles - Definately the Welsh.
 
 
 
@Dudie - You're totally right, nothing ventured nothing gained - although, the other wise saying of "Don't introduce youself at an intriguing ladies table when you can't actually speak due to a friend intoxicating you while thinking they're helping'.. would be a good balancer for that one..  They do sound fun, and the thing is I think I went to the Glasgow one by mistake one time, going by my memory of the people there and the feeling of out of placeness we had with the overall mood. 
 
I've found when one is, and I'm going to head along and see what it's like - I'm hopeful in the meantime I may find someone to go along with, but at the moment I can't think of anyone I know who isn't quite freaked out about it, so it's down to any new person I may meet in the pub between now and then.  And dress code, I don't have anything really cool yet, but I do have some nice black threads which are fine for Burlesque nights, so I would assume fine for these kind of nights too.
 
 
 
@Bonnster - Scottish and alcohol, much like other countries, except there seems to be a disproportionate amount of bad drunks in the sense of attitudes of getting and being drunk, aggression, and generally being arses.  I've met people from a few different countries, and they've all commented on the behaviour they find strange.  Even now my mate's heart is in the right place, but his actions aren't the best, because he got me shitfaced after I had some bad news, now it doesn't help, and I really should have been more aware and not let myself drink so much, but it's bizarre that getting mortalled appears to be an accepted and well thought of way too deal with emotions and life in this society - as opposed to being dumber than the monkey that rubbed its butt and sniffed its finger before falling out the tree..
 
 
 
@The24th - Thanks for the advice, though when you say be casual my mind automatically cuts to a mental image of the Fonze going 'Aaaaayyyy!'.  I should probably deal with that.  It would probably be too optimistic to wonder if you've ever been up to anything in the scene this far up North?
 
 
 
And yes, I will blog about it when I finally go. :)  Also looking forward to the next Burlesque night at Club Noir, I wish I knew such things existed when I first came down here, got a lot of time to make up for! :)



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Posted on 12/11/2009


Munches are an excellent way of getting into the scene, especially if you do not have any fetish clothes.  They are a laid back, informal social gathering of people into the BDSM and fetish scene.  Normal clothes are obligatory, as they meet in non-kinky places such as a cafe or pub.  They are a good way of meeting fellow kinksters.
If you go to a club, you will be expected to wear fetish clothes.  You could try getting some on the cheap from eBay or a cheapo sex shop. 
Just be casual, introduce yourself, admit that you are new, etc, and you will eventually start meeting people. 
 
This is really an open question rather than a blog, but to be honest, after a quick perusal the forums appear to suck.¿ And dribble too.¿ Big time.
So, munches, fetish nights, these are some fun sounding things I've known about for a while now, and I'm thinking of finding out about some and possibly heading along; I know of a couple in existence here in Glasgow.¿ My only issue is, I don't know anyone in the scene.¿ This makes it a little awkward, because I have no idea what to expect, how clique these things might be, how welcoming to randoms that turn up going 'Hey, those are some sexy leather chaps my friend!'.. and so on.
So I wondered, does anyone here have any experience of these in Scotland or the UK in general, any tips or advice?¿ Or if anyone goes along to any and wouldn't mind some extra company it'd be good to hear from all you kinky lads and lassies!
And as for tips, the obligatory "Don't wave your dick about, or hit people on the head with it while singing Mr Gabriel's Sledgehammer", or "Bring your own midget, they're in short supply! boom boom!", while less useful are always good for a laugh. :)¿ P.s. I was only joking about the chaps, I have enough common sense to complement the ass in those circumstances ;)
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Posted on 12/09/2009

well a lot of people wear pvc,rubber etc and there is a dresscode for each individual club but best thing to do is email the organisers before you go to get advice as they usually quite flexible if they are a good club.....goes without saying no trainers no jeans lol



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Posted on 12/08/2009

I'm curious about fetish clubs also, i mean do i just google fetish clubs. But I'm also curious what the fashion would be. I'm a tall guy and kind of broad shoulders and everytime I go into a place to get some clothes I cant even find anything that fits me lol. But then again I'm not into tight clothes. I dunno, I'm just clueless and looking for a starting point



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Posted on 12/07/2009

Please let us know how it went. I'm going to a club thing tomorrow night where some of the people frequent these S&M things too. I'll definately be doing the investigating.



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Posted on 12/06/2009

Quoting TheArchaicChapel:

wow, really enjoyed that!


dont encourage mohawk......



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Posted on 12/05/2009

wow, really enjoyed that!



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Posted on 12/05/2009

SHHHHHHHH Noodles!
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The FRESHIES Havn't seen or heard it!



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Posted on 12/04/2009

Ok.....so who had to mention the sheep ey???? Can't we just keep the New Zealanders out of this one....just this once!!

p.s...DT, you just need to flash those baby blues and gorgeous smile and some sweet young thing will surely take you by the harness and lead you where you need to go....enjoy ;-)



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Posted on 12/04/2009

Quoting Noodles123:


Mo you can't use the same photo and old joke AGAIN...Otherwise it becomes a YAWN!¿ :P



maybe his memory going



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Posted on 12/04/2009


Mo you can't use the same photo and old joke AGAIN...Otherwise it becomes a YAWN!¿ :P



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Posted on 12/04/2009

"Munches"? That sounds like an oral sex fest. Take your vitamins and eat your vegetables. Get your flavored dental dams and condoms. Too bad I didn't know you were in Glasgow or I might have stayed there a night and made it to the Auchentoshen Distillery in time. ("Dang those kids in the street when school let out! Literally been closed for 3 minutes, Agh!) What IS up with alcohol and Scottish Blood? BTW people, Scotland is exciting!They have a Bondage (S&m)club in Denver but I never went to it. I've always had the hots for men in unipants, not skirts, but if it is a long A-line fitted for a man's seat, in any way, it is soooo sexy! Commando or not, the access to the package and my fettish, the rear end, is undeniably HOT! I have clients who are all different types, some of them fettishers, and it's interesting. I wouldn't want to go alone either, but maybe it's better that way. That way if you want to try something your friend isn't standing there all left out if they don't want to try. I am very interested in this subject. But it's true that getting into a pissing contest doesn't show well for the ladies. (Turn off.) Please continue this blog.



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Posted on 12/04/2009

ok well Ive been to a munch where I live,I know the guy who runs it as he used to be my friends Dom, I have a lot of knowledge theory wise I guess about fetish and D/s stuff but didnt have much practical experience but that has changed somewhat since I met someone from here ;-)

it was quite scary walking into the munch by myself but the guy who runs it is very approacheable and looks after new people as he did with me,he introduced me to people and I met this submissive guy who I had a right laugh with.......not bigging myself up but being a single submissive girl at a munch def makes you a target for Doms which can be a bit overwhelming especially if your wearing leather pants lol.one guy asked me to go for a meal with him and go away with him to the lake district that weekend!like Im submissive not stupid !

munches can be good things but for me it was just a little too cliquey on my subsequent visits but nothing ventured nothing gained......

we have a good fetish night called clublash in manchester and it has a different theme every month,this months is rocky horror to tie in with the live show at the palace theatre.....there is a room for people to play in and you can watch or just hang out and dance etc.



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Posted on 12/04/2009

Dudie, please go ahead, it would be much appreciated :)



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Posted on 12/04/2009

Ok,
Let me paint a picture here,
or at least post one.
Here's a pic of my Grandfather
enjoying his morning session of
backstroke on Loch Ness.
¿
He did this every day for the best
part of 50 years god rest him.
¿
Clue -
That Ain't his arm!


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Posted on 12/03/2009

your thinking of the welsh noodles



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Posted on 12/03/2009

So Mohawk let me get this straight...White guys from Scotland are known throughout the world for big dongs?...Errrrrm...Ok buddy time for your meds.
¿
Here all this time it was for sheep f*cking, wife beating and alcoholism...Silly me...Or is that the Irish?...I forget since they both wear skirts.
¿

"Who the hell are you calling Scotish!?!"-Yelled the sheep f*cking, wife beating alcoholics through out the world...Not only mad but insulted.



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Posted on 12/03/2009

oh well I had a serious reply all lined up should I not bother now?



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Posted on 12/03/2009

I think I'll have to be resigned to the fact that the chance of getting serious replies is over; in the paraphrased words of Mr Hicks, "It's just dick jokes from here on in".



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